Man faces backlash over ‘selfish’ wedding proposal plan

A woman planned a vacation for over a dozen friends but became furious when an engagement proposal started to pull focus. She went on Reddit’s “Am I the A******” forum for advice. “Many of my friends are turning 40 next year, so I asked my closest friend Jenn in the group if she wanted to do a shared birthday and make a big trip out of it,” she wrote. “I planned and booked a trip for the group. Researched destinations, flights, accommodations, activities, booked and organized everything, coordinated schedules for 16 people, etc”. “I just found out [Jenn’s] long-term partner is planning to propose on that trip”. “I asked if he could possibly find another occasion and offered to help plan another trip for the group before or after to celebrate and surprise her with the proposal”. “He was p***** and said I was super selfish for wanting to make the trip ‘all about me,’ and I feel terrible,” she explained. “I feel kind of taken for granted for all the work I put into planning with no help, and now the trip will be all about the engagement and wedding planning”. Reddit users thought the poster was in the right. “He’s hijacking your plans,” a person wrote