The big question, Who do you invite to your pre-wedding party? In other words, Who do you invite to your pre-wedding party? The answer is probably everyone except the bride and groom. This is because no one is obligated to attend a wedding. If the couple does not want to have kids then they are not obligated to have a wedding reception. Thus, in other words, no one is forced to be there.
The next question, What do you do with those who do attend? They will most likely not leave the pre-wedding party until they have had a chance to relax and have some fun at the wedding. Thus, if you have a small pre-wedding bash and you want the guests to leave, have the guest book in your hotel room. Then, when you get back from the rehearsal dinner, send a short note asking them to please be away for a few hours. That way you can enjoy the pre-wedding bash without worrying about your guests.
Do you plan your pre wedding party around the bridesmaids? If so then you are in good company. Bridesmaids are usually the last to know about the wedding plans. It was always the maid of honor that was responsible for keeping the bridesmaids well informed of the wedding. It used to be the case with the family but today most brides plan their weddings themselves.
The point is, you do not have to be the “bride to be” to plan a nice pre-wedding party. There is no need to tell the bride what you plan to do. You may be the neighbor’s teenage daughter and have never been to a wedding but your friend has three children and is inviting all her teenage girls to a slumber party. The only rule is that no children should drink at the party.
When you are talking to your bridesmaids, ask if they want to go to the pre-wedding party. If they do then let them know that the bridal party is going too. This will make it easy for your bridesmaids to just sit at the party and have fun. They will not feel excluded. And the best part is they get to mingle with the rest of the wedding guests which is very rare at weddings today.
Many brides-to-be find it a challenge when it comes to choosing the bridesmaids dresses. The best way to resolve this issue is to ask your friends and relatives for suggestions. One suggestion would be to go online and look at the many dresses available for the pre-wedding party. You can choose from the styles and the colors that suit your personality the most. Once you have chosen the dress, you can send a picture of it along with your RSVP to the people who are being invited to the pre-wedding party.
A good way to find out the answer to the question “who do you invite to the pre-wedding party?” is to sit down with your closest friends and family and see who is actually attending the wedding. If you find that the majority of the attendees are your close family members, then that is a hint that you can just chill and have a good time. If on the other hand, you find that most of the attendees are your close friends, you might want to consider slightly changing the plan and have a small pre wedding party thrown. This will give everyone an opportunity to meet and mingle with each other.
The best way to plan a wedding is to keep it simple. If you have planned everything right, the only thing left to do is to make sure that you are having a fun and happy wedding. That should be all that should matter at a wedding! So the next question that you should ask yourself is “who do you invite to the pre-wedding party?” !
